When All You Want is Cereal...

Life hands you bad milk. You know how things go, they even have a law named for the phenomena. Things like when you are running late and your car won't start or you get stuck behind the wide load for 20 miles down the interstate.

Even worst yet you start depending on child support even though you know your ex can't be counted on for anything other than disappointment. He pays for a few months after more than a year of threats and then he stops again. You got use to it being there, and even though you know you shouldn't and you check every single week to make sure you did or are going to.

So what does he make sure he does? He makes sure you have no way of contacting him to let him know that there may be an error somewhere in the line that he needs to take care of. He tells you that all you want is the money even though you offered him the house he made sure you could no longer afford and had to move out of and told him if he moved there you would share 50/50 custody and no child support. He never sees his daughter and says it is your fault stating he can't afford it because you make him pay child support. He doesn't let you point out the fact that maybe him quiting a job where he he was making over $2000 a month to be a pizza boy may have more to do with the fact he doesn't have any money. He makes you out to be the bad guy to everyone you and he knows, but also when he does happen to see his daughter he bad mouths you once every couple of years. He doesn't call his daughter saying he doesn't want to talk to you even though you repeatedly tell him there is such thing as caller ID and scheduled times. He makes sure he acts like an idiot, and not a father or a man.